Here's a change - we've al ways had weekly "z ones " that each famil y mem ber is responsible for, I was s till having to remind the other family members of the details th at their "zone " en tailed even though it was the same thin g each week and each room. I grew weary, so I made a list. This little li st has become dear to my heart. I especially love the "extra chores" section. It enabl es flexibility . A flexibility that is the total opposite of what happ ens when something long a nd gooey hardens somewhere where it shouldn't. Side note- on ce I broke up with a boy ever a booger. I think that is an important lesson for my young son s know. Their future may depend on it.